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What Are The Legal Rights of a Father?

By: Jack Claridge - Updated: 23 Jun 2020 | comments*Discuss
 
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As a general rule the mother will always have what is referred to as ‘parental responsibility’ for her children regardless of the father’s presence or absence. This is something that many think needs to be addressed by the government and legal institutions of the United Kingdom.

What are My Rights as a Father?

You have rights as the father of your child if:
  • If the child was born on or after December 1st 2003 and you are named on the Birth Certificate as the child’s birth father
  • If a Parental Responsibility Agreement is signed
  • If the birth certificate for the child held no father’s name but was later renewed to show yours
  • If a Magistrate or Justice of the Peace (JP) at the Family Court has granted you parental responsibility or an Order Of Residency

I Want to Enter Into a Parental Responsibility Agreement (PR) – Is This A Good Idea?

If you want to have a say in your child’s upbringing, then yes, it is a good idea. It is unfortunate that sometimes relations between both parents become so strained that the children will become the unfortunate tools that parents use to hurt each other.

If both parents can enter into such a PR agreement, it should ensure that both parties have a say in how their child are brought up. This does not necessarily cover the day-to-day living arrangements but it certainly includes larger concerns, such as what school their child should go to, the medical treatment they receive, what religion they should be taught, etc.

In some cases, the parents’ split is an amicable one and there will be no need for such an agreement. But often it is a necessity if a relationship has turned sour and neither party can agree without the intervention of the courts.

Financial Responsibilities

You have a financial obligation to help provide for your child’s upkeep. If a relationship breaks down, you have to expect that you will be required by law to pay something towards caring for your child and providing them with what they need.

This can be done by mutual consent between both parents – and if this is agreed upon it is important to have something written down so that all parties know exactly where they stand. If no agreement is made, or if you simply prefer it, Child Maintenance can be handled through the Child Support Agency.

The Child Support Agency requires that you pay 15% of your net income towards your child’s care and this increases to 20% cent for two children, 25% for three children and so on.

Visiting My Child

If you are named on the birth certificate as the father of the child, you have a legal right to see your children. This is sometimes tested to the limit if parents split under less than agreeable circumstances, and it can ultimately mean the involvement of the courts and family services to help mediate towards agreeable visiting rights for the father.

If you are in any of the above situations and feel you need advice, it is wise to contact the Citizens Advice Bureau or your local family services court for more information and support. It should be noted, however, that it is best – where possible – to try to resolve any issues between both parents with resorting to courts and solicitors as this can be as traumatic for the child as it can be for the parents. Read up about parental responsibility.

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Mary - 18-Jun-20 @ 2:49 PM
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Adhd - 2-Jun-20 @ 6:02 PM
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K937 - 28-Apr-20 @ 4:33 PM
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Pikey - 17-Apr-20 @ 4:59 AM
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Joey - 10-Mar-20 @ 2:05 PM
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Franky - 29-Feb-20 @ 1:35 PM
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Rich - 30-Jan-20 @ 6:09 PM
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Vickster - 30-Jan-20 @ 8:47 AM
I bring my two children up who are 8 years and 9 years wham I entitled to claim has I work ??
Scotty - 16-Jan-20 @ 2:50 PM
Hi can you advise me if fathe is not on birth certificate can child maintenance still be accessed also can the maternal family inform the paternal grand mother she has a grand child even if the father doesn’t want this inform disclosed Thankyou
Berry - 16-Jan-20 @ 2:14 PM
If a father isn’t on birth certificate can the mother still claim child maintenance. Also can a maternal family disclose to the paternal family that a woman has a grand child even if the baby’s father doesn’t wish for this to be disclosed ? Many thanks
Berry - 16-Jan-20 @ 2:12 PM
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Chazz645 - 5-Jan-20 @ 6:34 PM
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Naomi - 24-Dec-19 @ 7:30 AM
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Splatty - 17-Dec-19 @ 2:48 PM
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Bates - 9-Dec-19 @ 8:34 PM
Hi I split with the mother of two of my children over 5 years ago within 5 years I have seen them once I have tried to contact them through family and friends and I have tried to contact her through my current partner as she has blocked me on everything(I don't know where she lives as she moved 3 hours away from me) still I've had no luck with seeing my children I have 2 children with my current partner and after 5 years of trying to see my other 2 children with no luck the mother of my other two children said the only way I can see them is if I take her to court. I am worried it will go against me because I haven't seen them purely for the fact she hasn't allowed me to no matter how hard I try I will take her to court to see them but I was wondering if anyone else has been in a similar situation and they have managed to see there children! I am desperate to see they are my kids and this is the last option for me any advice would be appreciated.
Clar9 - 25-Nov-19 @ 10:01 AM
My partner and I have been in a relationship for 16months, he and his wife have three children (6yrs and twins 11mnths). My partner wants to leave and live with me, but is terrified that his ex wife will stop him from seeing his children and for them to be able to come and stay with us. Please could you advise as to whether he is right to be concerned?
Tostie - 17-Nov-19 @ 4:25 PM
My 1and half year-old son living in foster care iris really breaking me apart but I try my best to stay strong for my son I have been caring for him since day one I was pregnant his father abandoned I and my son till the day I gave birth he still abandoned his father responsibility and he was abusive too and my mother he know claims that I was abusive to him I have also done my best to do as the local authorities ask of me most of the staments made of me I believe to be untrue I am so truamertise by that specially the staments made by the father of my son I am trying my very best to work with the local authorities and the court my only wish is to get my son back the mistake that I made was to put his details on the birth certificate as he was never their for my son he was so controlling and demanding I am scared what he might have in plan ......
Mel - 9-Nov-19 @ 10:52 AM
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Mel - 9-Nov-19 @ 10:43 AM
Hi, My Husband has 2 children one 18 that lives with us and a 16 year old boy that lives with his mother. For the last 5 years we have picked the boy up every Friday from school and one weekend taken him back on the Saturday and the other weekend we take him back on the Sunday evening. Now his mother has said we can only pick him up every other weekend. This has really upset us as we want to see him every weekend but she says it’s her weekend so we can’t have him. She works weekends so he is sat at home alone on his play station. So no reason we can’t see him as he is back before she gets home from work. It is upsetting for him and us. If we are over by where they live we will ring him and pick him up and do something then drop him home. His mother has now said we can’t do that as she doesn’t like it. My question is can she stop us picking him up? Thanks for your time
Liz - 4-Nov-19 @ 10:17 AM
Hi my ex partner has been getting access to our son Every second he took me to court last week for a child welfare hearing he’s got 1 extra day added on he has now said he has booked a 2 week holiday next may knowing we were going away a week in may which means he’s not gonna see our son for 26 days straight he maintains he can’t sort out school holidays because he doesn’t know what holidays he can get of work so how could he book a holiday 6 months in advance for himself can he do this we live in Scotland
Jo - 23-Oct-19 @ 2:39 PM
What can I do if my ex hasnt seen his children in 6years his on birth certificates. He's never paid any CSA they are now 13yrs & 11yrs both wont nothing to do with they father but they had a good relationship before we split up. Also we have a hoilday booked for Australia for 28days.....looking for advice please.
Sam - 21-Oct-19 @ 9:54 AM
Hi my grandson is 11 and wants to live with his dad he never wants to go home to his mum and her boyfriend he says he hates her he's so unhappy when he has got to go it's heart breaking seeing that change in him why son is on his birth certificate and named as his father can why son keep him or will he get in trouble of the police Thankyou need help asap
Jo - 18-Oct-19 @ 6:01 PM
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Tra - 4-Oct-19 @ 6:43 PM
My daughter in law has kicked my son out he is now back with us. After two years of marriage their son was only 3 months old . She has changed the locks, made him go on antidepressants tables and sleeping tablets. He has organised marriage councillor and relate but neither have been very helpful. Her problem is her mom being over powering always there. She will not allow my son to see his son unless her mom is there and won’t let us see him either. WHAT can we do . Please help.
Sammy - 1-Oct-19 @ 9:54 AM
Hi I have a 3 year old boy who’s mother handed him over to me 3 months ago giving up all responsibility so she could further her career it’s just come to light after claiming child benefit and jobseekers and giving up my job to have him full time that now she is having second thoughts and is implying that she wants him back full time again as she doesn’t see him as much as she wants because of work and her ridiculous hours. But as from today she has stated her mother aka my child’s grandmother who also has a new born baby that she give birth to about 5/6 months ago will be taking care of him until 9pm every nightwhile she works all day I’d like to know where I stand and if I have any rights based on this alone. Coz I’m not prepared to hand him over when he has a regular bedtime/routine with me that I’ve worked on so hard since I’ve taken over full time he’s always been better for me anyway but now I have this system in place I feel like I’ve been used and betrayed also she has had at least 7/8 boyfriends in a year and they never last as they don’t except me as his dad or as the father of his mothers child this will almost always happen and in my eyes will almost if not confuse him and I just what consistency with him and I believe with me he will have all of the above. Can anyone advise me on the law of this situation
Nath - 26-Sep-19 @ 7:34 PM
I have not seen my children for nearly a year my exwife claims that my children do not want to see me citing that i would take them from her if they would see me which is not true but she has scared them into not wanting to be with me she has also used child Services to stop them for no reason apart from this but they have had no regular worker on this case and for convenience it feels they have kept me away i miss them so much i am missing them growing up and turning into functional members of life ita broken my heart and my soul completely now i have found that she has broken my last link with them and taken them out of school claiming that they are being home schooled i was calling them every week seeing how my two were growing now i have nothing i have fallen apart and feel i will never see them again i am a good loving dad and has lost everything but all I want is my children
Mick - 5-Sep-19 @ 8:43 PM
Hi, could someone please advise me on where I stand? I'm currently 32 weeks pregnant, after 4 months of not hearing anything from baby's dad he has got back in touch and is not demanding that when baby is here he will have him over night straight away. I have told him that I'm not allowing that as I need to trust that he is not going to do a runner out of our son's life and that he can keep up with baby's needs. Baby's dad now saying he's going to see a solicitor regarding 50/50 custody. I have not once said that he cannot see his child just that I don't want him having him overnight until baby is a bit older, thanks
Egray89 - 14-Aug-19 @ 10:32 PM
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