Applying for Custody

For some marriages unfortunately they are destined not to last and as a result the husband and wife decide to split. However in the midst of these marital splits there may be children involved and each parent may have their own ideas as to how the children should be looked after and indeed who should look after them.

Indeed sometimes feelings are so strong as to who should have the children living with them that one or both parents may instigate custody proceedings in order to have the law rule on who is the parent most suited to looking after the children.

What is Child Custody?

Basically child custody is a ruling by a magistrate – or Family Panel – which determines which parent should have the children living with them. This decision is based on a number of factors and also takes into consideration the feelings of the children involved if they are old enough to understand the nature of what is going on around them.

Child custody also rules on how often and under what circumstances the parent who has been refused custody should see his or her children.

Applying for Custody

Before you can apply for custody you must ensure that all avenues of amicable agreement have been exhausted. It is important to remember that a custody battle can be a long drawn out series of hearings and throughout this your children will be fully aware of what is happening. Also they will have to speak to the court welfare officer during this time as well.

You must first consult a solicitor who specialises in family law and he or she will instruct you on the best course of action. If there are no mitigating circumstances in the custody request such as domestic violence then you should reasonably expect the process to take some time.

Appearing before the Family Panel

When you are given the date for your custody hearing you will be required to appear before the Family Panel – which consists of three magistrates – and explain your reasons for wanting custody of your children. Your partner will also have to do this and the Family Panel will put a series of questions to you in relation to how you think you can cope with the children alone, why you think you are the parent to whom the court should grant custody and also if you are able to support the children financially?

The Court Welfare Officer

The Court Welfare Officer is given the task of assessing your status at home and also how you interact and look after your children. He or she will make her report and submit her recommendations to the Family Panel and may on the day of the custody hearing be asked to present her findings to all those present.

He or she may also have to speak with your children to try and ascertain from them as to where they would like to be and the reasons why. All of this information is documented and presented to the Family Panel for review.

The Family Panel’s Ruling

You should be mindful of the fact that the Family Proceedings Court is a court of law and the magistrates operating therein are doing so in accordance with the law. With this in mind the Family Panel’s decision is legal and binding and – unless you appeal it – you are required by law to adhere to the terms and conditions of the custody agreement.