What Are the Legal Rights of a Father?

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What Are the Legal Rights of a Father?

As a general rule the mother will always have what is referred to as ‘parental responsibility’ for her children regardless of the father’s presence or absence. This is something that many think needs to be addressed by the government and legal institutions of the United Kingdom.

What are My Rights as a Father?

You have rights as the father of your child if:

  • If the child was born on or after December 1st 2003 and you are named on the Birth Certificate as the child’s birth father
  • If a Parental Responsibility Agreement is signed
  • If the birth certificate for the child held no father’s name but was later renewed to show yours
  • If a Magistrate or Justice of the Peace (JP) at the Family Court has granted you parental responsibility or an Order Of Residency
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I Want to Enter Into a Parental Responsibility Agreement (PR) – Is This A Good Idea?

If you want to have a say in your child’s upbringing, then yes, it is a good idea. It is unfortunate that sometimes relations between both parents become so strained that the children will become the unfortunate tools that parents use to hurt each other.

If both parents can enter into such a PR agreement, it should ensure that both parties have a say in how their child are brought up. This does not necessarily cover the day-to-day living arrangements but it certainly includes larger concerns, such as what school their child should go to, the medical treatment they receive, what religion they should be taught, etc.

In some cases, the parents’ split is an amicable one and there will be no need for such an agreement. But often it is a necessity if a relationship has turned sour and neither party can agree without the intervention of the courts.

Your situation may be slightly different. ask a question below ↓ and our editorial team will reply with our advice.

Financial Responsibilities

You have a financial obligation to help provide for your child’s upkeep. If a relationship breaks down, you have to expect that you will be required by law to pay something towards caring for your child and providing them with what they need.

This can be done by mutual consent between both parents – and if this is agreed upon it is important to have something written down so that all parties know exactly where they stand. If no agreement is made, or if you simply prefer it, Child Maintenance can be handled through the Child Support Agency.

The Child Support Agency requires that you pay 15% of your net income towards your child’s care and this increases to 20% cent for two children, 25% for three children and so on.

Visiting My Child

If you are named on the birth certificate as the father of the child, you have a legal right to see your children. This is sometimes tested to the limit if parents split under less than agreeable circumstances, and it can ultimately mean the involvement of the courts and family services to help mediate towards agreeable visiting rights for the father.

If you are in any of the above situations and feel you need advice, it is wise to contact the Citizens Advice Bureau or your local family services court for more information and support. It should be noted, however, that it is best – where possible – to try to resolve any issues between both parents with resorting to courts and solicitors as this can be as traumatic for the child as it can be for the parents. Read up about parental responsibility.

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LawAndParents Editor 20/05/2026 at 9:16 am
@jono Your daughter is now an adult, so your ex-wife's blocking is no longer the issue. Try tracing her directly through social media (Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn) or use a tracing service like Salvation Army Family Tracing, which you've already started. You could also write one final honest letter explaining your health and post it recorded delivery to any address you have for her. Given your circumstances, Missing People or a private tracing agent might be your quickest route. I really hope she gets in touch.
jono 06/04/2024 at 5:14 pm
I have a 23-year-od daughter who I`ve not seen since 2007. I split with her mum in 2005 when I became a single parent to our 2 sons.
I am now a Grandad of two with a serious illness who wants to be re-united with his daughter before he dies.
My ex-wife has since 2007 denied me & my sons all contact with Lucy.
There has been no falling out as dad,brothers, sister have not met or been in the same room since 2007.
I have tried everyting to see my daughter, sent Birthday & Xmas Cards & up until 2016.
Also sent many letters & always made my CSA payments.
I also involved the Salvation Army & the Hospital Chaplin after my second triple heart bypass operation.
My ex-wife either ignored the letters or did not pass them to my daughter. I need advice on how to make contact with my daughter.
I now have a second serious illness & know I`m running out time.
Montana 26/01/2021 at 11:27 am
Hi,
I separated from my ex when our little one was 7 weeks ago (he decided to end it and kicked us out) he still had FaceTime with her as covid was just kicking off wnd didn’t want to risk anything. He then went quiet and found out been on dating apps. He got back in touch and threatened me with court wnd wanted us both back. So I agreed we’d go back. When we moved back in with him she was 5months. He was working, always helping his friends out and never bothered with us. I remember asking if he’d spare me and our little one 2 hours a week for me to start running again, he refused saying he’s too busy wnd to get our parents to help out instead. September he felt ill and asked for us to go to my parents house, which he did. He then finished it a week later, ( and went on another dating app) and then didn’t speak or whenever he did it was he’s taking me to court. (I never denied him access I said it needs to be built up as you haven’t been around and our little one doesn’t really know him) he finally agreed to building it up (once in week wnd once on weekend) it didn’t last very long as things would come up, or he’d want me around and to come back earlier to pick up. He’s kept his distance for 10days as he came in contact with someone who tested positive for covid. He asked if we can keep in touch and do FaceTime regularly, I said that’s fine, it’ll be good that our little one still recognises him. He didn’t bother, he didn’t check in on her once. And now he’s messaging me and I feel it’ll go to “I’m taking you to court” as I’ll say time needs to be built up as you haven’t kept in touch. She’s now a one year old and very clingy for me as I’ve been her prime career. Anyone else been in a similar situation?
Jeanie 08/01/2021 at 7:41 pm
Hi a friend of mine has had their grandchild living with them for the past 4 years with the parents consent , only now the mother of the child has moved on and had two more kids with someone els ,the father of the child at the grandparents wants desparetly wants to see his son and take him out but the grandparents are flatly refusing to let the child see the dad their are no bad circumstances atall to do with the father it's the grandparents that are not allowing any contac....what can the dad do ... Thank you ..
KingDaddems 03/01/2021 at 10:22 pm
As a father who has 50 50 custody and pr, can I stop the mother from leaving my child with her new partner on their own, that my child isn't familiar with?
Nitya 19/10/2020 at 8:48 pm
Hi , me ans my husband separated when.my child was.onky 2 yrs old now my son is 17yrs , his father has never tried reaching us yo know about his child whereabouts and he got married

Now my son wants to.meet his father ,what is the process
Cyrian 09/10/2020 at 12:38 am
Hello, I need some advice, I am currently drafting a will for my children's welfare. I would like to appoint guardianship to my mother but am afraid this may get over looked as my children's father has perental rights. My ex partner is not capable of looking after our children because he has a drinking problem. I don't denie him access to our children, Every visit he makes is supervised by myself. What do I need to do to guarantee my children's safety and well being.
Mary 18/06/2020 at 2:49 pm
In california my son went to jail on a violation. 1 week later his girlfriend (mother of his 1year old daughter )gave birth to a premature baby girl positive with methamphetamines. Social worker told mother she needs out patient program baby remained at hospital for almost 1month. She was released to mother on a Sunday and baby died Tuesday morning. Mother called me in said baby died during the night while she slept. Atopsey showed babies skull fractured. CPS removed my 1year old granddaughter and contacted me after learning my son was in jail. I was then married to a feline and wasnt able to get emergency custody of her. Maternal grama was given temp emergency custody the plan was for my son to reunify with my granddaughter. Unfortunately a riot in county jail gave my son 1year in prison instead of the month violation. During this year both maternal n paternal grama get granted supervised visits through child protective services. My son released from prison Sunday and monday was a court hearing where they terminated his parental rights saying due to the child's age there was no bond and best interest was to be adopted. He had 1 last visit where my granddaughter immediately recognized him. There was such bond between the both. Heartbreaking to know it was his last time with his daughter..he appealed it but didnt win. Through this time CPS worker approved me to have unsupervised visits but then granddaughter was moved to a different worker in adoptions. She advise me to keep a good relationship wth maternal grama. Would be best . Without knowledge I agreed and maintained a relationship wth my grand baby gor 3years. 1week before her birthday the maternal grama said to me that they had decided to be her only family. I'm devastated has been 2years I last saw her.
Maternal grama being an illegal resident was able to adopt my grandchild being mother of who my granddaughter should be protected from. Maternal had a 2 bedroom her husband 2 children and her other daughter along with husband and grandchild reside wth her. I had a townhouse 3 bedroom and was told my house was too small.. why were they In such a rush to put her for adoption if she was with family member? Why wasnt my son given the opportunity to be a father to his child? What can i do now is there anything I can do to have contact with my grandchild.
Adhd 02/06/2020 at 6:02 pm
I am the father of a 4 yo and Me and the mother have been seprerated a year now. I have always been a huge part of his life and he stays with me a few days of the week, every week. (During summer it's 7 days a piece and also more recently during lockdown it has also been 7 days each) Recently we have had some very serious concerns with the mother's behaviour towards him and we are seeking legal advice as well as contacting social services. I need to know if in the mean time he can stay with me until we get this all sorted out as the mother is claiming she will come and get him and take him back from me. She is aware social services have been contacted and I believe they contacted her too about it. Now we are both seeking legal advice but I could do with knowing in the mean time where my rights lie on this issue. I know mother's usually get priority but it's an extenuating circumstance. Also I have always been on the birth certificate.
Stacey 09/05/2020 at 11:13 pm
Hi I left my children's dad 4 month ago he's been having contact with my son since what ever day he says he wants to keep our son I will say ok and let him recently had my second baby to him 5 week ago but now all of a sudden he's said he's taking me to court so he can have rights how do I stand with this as I let him see and take kids when he pleases I have not stoped any contact at all he's just out of the blue wanting to drag us through courts for no reason
K937 28/04/2020 at 4:33 pm
Hi my sisters ex has had nothing to do with there daughter for 6yrs shes 7 now he has been paying maintinance with a push, hes now decided he wants custody!!

Our dad died a couple of years ago and its been a struggle since for all of us but shes going through a break up with her new partner so shes pretty low

Can he do this
Pikey 17/04/2020 at 4:59 am
Hi I had a court order for my son not long after he was born in 2012 my name is on the birth certificate I was having regular contact with him every weekend and then for some strange reasons I got a letter in the post saying that she cancelled my child maintenance payments without my permission and then she stopped contact breaching the court order and have moved to a new location and I don't know where I haven't seen him now for 7 years could you help me please on what I can do many thanks.
Sky 04/04/2020 at 10:04 am
My daughter is nearly one her dad doesn't live with us i have health problems, epilepsy, i need to know if my child dad can have my daughter for four days because my partner want commit and i need my daughter to be safe
Joey 10/03/2020 at 2:05 pm
I i split up with my children's mother now my children are with me weekdays and weekends with her but she is still claiming there money and when its brought up she wants them back what way do i go about this because she has first right because shes the mum but her livinf situation isent permanent what can i do about this???
Franky 29/02/2020 at 1:35 pm
Hi.I left my partner of 8 years bout a year and half now as caught her carrying on for a year. She is now engaged and living happily with him, Iv no issue over this at all..but because I have now moved on and found someone I am now no longer allowed to see my 5 yo daughter , all I get every weekend is abuse and drama from her, her 6th birthday is coming up this Friday!.i am a big part of her life and had her whenever I wanted..wtf do I do?
Rich 30/01/2020 at 6:09 pm
Hi i havent seen my daughter for 8 years long story but court decided i would have to wait for them to contact me ,my daughter has contacted me saying she needs to see me shes 16 now also tough at home she told me we went through all the love you cant wait to see you etc etc but her mum found out she had been in contact ,and now i have lost contact ,she is 16 surely she can make her own mind up if she wants to see me and just wonder what i can do
Vickster 30/01/2020 at 8:47 am
Hi just looking for advice on a particular situation I gave each year... myself and my sons dad are separated, we both have separate partners who we live with and he is married to his. My son stays with him 3 nights a week and with me 4. We have a fair agreement both doing similar things with him I.e holidays, and splitting weekend, Xmas and birthdays etc.

My issue is, her dad goes away for one week every summer with his friends. He tries to trick me into dropping our son off on the normal days and and doesn’t tell me he’s on holiday, however in the past I have normally found out before the date from other people. He expects that our son should still goes to his house on the normal 3 days in the week to be looked after by his wife. The way I see it, is that it’s an opportunity for us to spend a weekend together - which we rarely have due to the arrangements. I have made it clear that it’s no reflection on her (quite the opposite that I’m thankful of everything she does for our son who is 10) however when he goes on holiday he is my responsibility and I will keep her at home for most of the time with me. I have suggested that he can still go for dinner and maybe stay over one night in the week if that fits with his wife, however it turns in to a battle every year because he wants to control the situation. He says legally she has to go there because that’s our agreement however with all due respect my agreement is with him, not his wife.

Legally am I in the right to stick to my guns here? Am I being unreasonable?

Thank you in advance
Scotty 16/01/2020 at 2:50 pm
I bring my two children up who are 8 years and 9 years wham I entitled to claim has I work ??
Berry 16/01/2020 at 2:14 pm
Hi can you advise me if fathe is not on birth certificate can child maintenance still be accessed also can the maternal family inform the paternal grand mother she has a grand child even if the father doesn’t want this inform disclosed Thankyou
Berry 16/01/2020 at 2:12 pm
If a father isn’t on birth certificate can the mother still claim child maintenance. Also can a maternal family disclose to the paternal family that a woman has a grand child even if the baby’s father doesn’t wish for this to be disclosed ? Many thanks
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