Can I Change My Daughter's Surname?

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Can I Change My Daughter's Surname?
L.G asks

My daughter has my surname as her biological father and I weren't married and split when I was a few weeks pregnant. I'm now having my second child and my partner and I are getting married soon. Can I change my daughter's surname to that of my partner?

A person with parental responsibility for a child can change the child’s name without any special procedure simply by calling the child by the new name. It is not necessary to change the name by Deed Poll. As the child’s mother, you automatically have Parental Responsibility. However, anyone else with parental responsibility will also have to agree to the Change Of Name. Whether or not you would need the consent of your daughter’s biological father will depend on certain factors.

The biological father of a child may have parental responsibility if he:

  • Was married to the mother when the child was born
  • Was registered on the birth certificate as the child’s father - for births registered from 1 December 2003 onwards
  • Subsequently marries the child’s mother and /or enters into a parental responsibility agreement with the child’s mother
  • Re-register’s the child’s birth so that he is named as the father
  • Gets a court order which gives him parental responsibility for the child

In some cases, a father without parental responsibility could get a court order overturning a change of name if the court decides that the name change is not in the child’s best interest. If objections are raised to the proposed change of name, you could apply for a court order approving the new name.

For a child under 16 years of age, the name can be changed without the child’s permission. However, a child who objects to a change of name could apply for a court order reversing the change. The court would take into account the child’s maturity and understanding of the situation, and any adverse impact it thinks the change could have on the child’s wellbeing.

Proving a Change of Name

For everyday life it is sufficient simply to tell people that you wish the child to be known by a new name. However, for some official functions – such as applying for a passport – something more official may be required. An alternative to changing the name by Deed Poll is to get a statutory declaration. A statutory declaration is a formal document, on which your signature must be witnessed by a solicitor, which could be used to state officially that the child’s name has been changed.

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Re- registering the Birth to Show the Change of Name

A name entered on a birth certificate cannot be changed on the original certificate unless it was spelled incorrectly. To record a change of name the birth must be re-registered. However, a birth can only be re-registered to show the name of the biological father or of the child’s adoptive parents.

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Sarah kay 30/12/2020 at 11:14 am
Hi, I separated in 2015 and divorced last year. Child arrangements have been ok but strained as my ex does not seem to have our girls best interests at heart. He keeps them up till 1-2am on weekends, sometimes doesn’t shower them, leaves my 11y/o home alone when going on a big shopping trip, doesn’t take them out anywhere except his mums and the local park (eldest won’t go as bored at 14) and he only has a 1 bed flat which they keep leaving items provided for them there and not bringing them home. In the past I have had arguments about them not changing underwear, brushing hair and teeth etc. Now keep hair short as he doesn’t help. He has also handed 3 mobile phones to our youngest to use without wiping them clean and had porn on.
My main issue at the moment is him keeping them up extremely late and coming home tired and argumentative. I’ve tried phone blocks etc but he just puts his tv on or gives youngest his phone. Can I stop overnight visits? I don’t want to stop all visitation but I cannot go on with this every time.
Mom 28/09/2020 at 2:07 am
I’ve been married to my husband for almost 16 years. My daughter is now 17 and has NEVER met her biological father because he left us got in trouble then got deported. And I have no idea where to find him in Mexico. What can I do to change her last name to her step dads?
specks 22/07/2020 at 9:46 pm
can i stay overnight with my ex partner we are both on benefits, can our money be stopped and what are the rights and law regarding overnight stays ?
Loza 04/05/2020 at 8:39 am
My ex changed my childrens surnames years ago and i was never contacted for permission and i am on there birth certificates and have parenteral responsibility for them. What can i do about this? She did stop me from seeing them for a while and this is then when she changed there surnames.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated
mashudu 06/11/2019 at 3:51 pm
i married my wife with one kid and we are married with in community of property and i want to change her biological father surname to mine,where must i go and what can be needed at home affairs
Sarah 23/04/2019 at 4:38 pm
hi,
got divorced recently. the father pays child maintenance but doesn't see his daughter the family name of my daughter is the first name of my ex when she was born we gave her his first name because he has no family name. can I change her family name( which is his first name)to my family name ? thanks
Stocky 12/04/2019 at 12:15 am
As a 77year old my only wish is for me to have included with my surname is of the surname of my stepdad...my stepdad surname being in the middle.
What is the procedure for this,any advice would be much appreciated.
Ram 13/02/2019 at 1:57 pm
Hi, my daughter is 7 years old and she have 2 surnames mine and biological fathers, she doesn't know her real father, now I'm married and my husband wants give to her his surname. But I don't have any contact or information about my daughters biological father since she was 1 year old. Can I change surnames without his permission? Thank you
Thapzen 04/02/2019 at 11:15 am
Zandile Baloyi and Alfred Baloyi recently divorced. Zandile has changed her surname to her maiden surname (Dlamini), and she also wants to change her daughter’s surname to Dlamini. With reference to authority, Advise Zandile whether this is possible and, if so, which procedure should be followed
Jess 18/09/2018 at 5:53 pm
My daughters dad want to change his and our 2 year old daughters surname to his mother’s maiden name how do I go about this? Many thanks
Annie 09/09/2018 at 12:42 am
Hello, my daughter has got my surname. Her father is on the birth certificate ,and we are not married yet. How do l change her surname to have it sale as her father? Do l need to re register the birth? Thank you!!
Kelly 16/07/2018 at 3:58 pm
My daughter was born with my surname and would like to have her biological fathers name on her birth certificate. My ex husband gave her his name but since has removed himself as legal guardian and disastblished all legal and parental obligations by the court. How do I go about changing her name and giving her the biological fathers last name without his consent or adding him as father on birth certificate
LawAndParents Editor 06/06/2018 at 2:48 pm
If thre is a restraining order in place and with the father's history, the courts may agree to a name change without the father's consent, or they may seek his consent on your behalf etc
MozH2 05/06/2018 at 11:18 pm
I'm wanting to change my daughter's surname from their biological fathers name to mine. They are 9 years of age and havent had contact with him from the ages of 1/2 years due to him being abusive towards me which lead to him going to prison on 2 separate occasions and also resulting in me having a restraining order on him which lasted 7 years. He is on the birth certificate but I do not want to contact him for obvious reasons. I'm really stuck with where to go on this. Thanks in advance for any advice given.
Rissa84 01/06/2018 at 7:33 pm
My daughter and son who are 14 and 12 don't see their biological father and especially my daughter wants to be known by her step dads surname and my son has also said when we get married he wants to change his surname. It says in previous parts that a mother can change the name without fathers consent if the birthday was registered before December 2003 which my daughter was born in October 2003 so can I change it for her without her father knowing and how would I go about this please. Could I re register her birth with her stepdads name on it or am I getting confused?
Kr55 20/04/2018 at 9:23 am
Hi, I have a daughter who is 3 and hasn’t seen her biological father since she was 8 months old. He has no contact with her, doesn’t pay maintenance and he’s recently changed his surname. Can I change my daughters to my surname?
LawAndParents Editor 11/04/2018 at 3:42 pm
The name can be changed with the father's consent. If consent is given, the cost is £36. If consent is not given, you can apply for a court order - the cost of which is £215. Once you daughter is 16 she can change her name by deed poll anyway, so might make sense to wait until then?
LawAndParents Editor 06/04/2018 at 12:31 pm
You will need the consent of the biological father. If the father refuses consent, you could apply for a court order but the courts will look at all the circumstances and decide based on the best interests of the child.
Tracy 05/04/2018 at 5:41 pm
Hi, I have a 5 year old daughter who has never seen her biological dad. He pays maintenance through his wages being arrested as he’s not willing to pay on his own. Her biological dad wanted nothing to do with her and is not on her birth certificate. I have met a new man who treats my daughter as his own and my daughter loves him as a Dad, we are having a baby together and I wondered would it be possible to change my daughters surname to my partners surname so both my kids have the same surname without the consent of her biological father? It’s my surname she has. Thanks for your time.
Sue 31/03/2018 at 10:47 pm
My daughter is 15 on her birth certificate is her father's surname. As we have not seen or heard from him since she was 2yrs old she chose to be known by my surname and is done by all her schooling etc
She want to officially change it as she will be applying for her learners permit bank account etc.
We have no $$$ and was wondering how we go about it.
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